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Post by supersaiyan3 on Jan 11, 2004 20:02:46 GMT -5
Sometimes my parents can be awsome....very lenient and dont care about much and i can do whatever the hell i want.... then some other times they get all serious and make me do all this crap and try to force me to care about aspects of my life that i couldnt give 2 shits about....so since my parents are hellbent on making me make big decisions in my life that i dont feel like putting in the effort for to make should i attemt to comprimise with my parents and succumb to what they ask me to do or should i just say fuck it a bare with them till after hs and fully abandon them.....any imput
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Post by i got issues on Jan 11, 2004 20:07:41 GMT -5
Well, ya and no. I see what ur talking about, all the time. My parents happen to be very inconsistent. Well thats my dad. My mom is consistently mean and the way i look at it is i cant wait to move out of the oucntry after high school, get away from them. I actualy asked them this year about switching schools and dorming and they said no. But ya, since u have to, its better for u to compromise with them now and then u will prosper because of it in the future. The reason why kids stay close to the parents after they move out is cuz of money. If you leave with a good relationship, ur parents will love u later in life. I know with my dad, he left hoem when he was 14 to go to dorm school and his parents love him the most now because they leadt each other with a good relationshi[.
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Post by supersaiyan3 on Jan 11, 2004 20:11:05 GMT -5
yes your right i shouldnt abandon my parents because they are a good source of $$$....and im sure when im done with hs and they cant tell me what to do we will be much closer
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Post by CptCatz on Jan 11, 2004 20:23:34 GMT -5
sucks for you guys. my parents consistently dont give a shit about what i do.
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Post by supersaiyan3 on Jan 11, 2004 20:32:13 GMT -5
good for u and may u live a peaceful life
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Post by CptCatz on Jan 11, 2004 20:58:03 GMT -5
why thank you
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Post by themayflower on Jan 11, 2004 21:55:06 GMT -5
i begged my parents to send me to boarding school for a year- i hated everything about my life- but they said no because boarding school is for kid whose parents are too busy or cant deal with their kids and barely care about them- if you are sent to boarding school for academic reasons thats one thing- but if your sent cuz you cant deal w/ your parents- that isnt gonna have a very good outcome.
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Post by themayflower on Jan 11, 2004 21:59:10 GMT -5
you guys think so negatively- you honestly think your parents dont care about you? you dotn realize how much they do- think of the little things- they want you to get a good education and have a good childhood so you can have a foundation to grow on when you get older
sending you to a yeshiva is because they want you to have a good j.e.- a lot of parents feel like they missed out because they didnt go..... and pikcing you up like twice a week from afterschool activities- because they want you to have fun in high school...and always driving you to friends and places....well hopefully you get the point
and for those sophmores who cant wait to get out of the house and are going on mifgashim- just think that in a few months your not gonna have to see them for a while
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Post by supersaiyan3 on Jan 11, 2004 22:24:27 GMT -5
now you are starting to think like my mom.....the things you do right DO NOT cancel out the things you do wrong. Oh I killed the president but it is ok because I take his kids in carpool. Wrong! Just because they do shit for us does not give them the right to say and do whatever they want (even though the legally do have that right) because I personally wont stand for it. why the fuck should i give respect to someone for being older. Did he have some special talent that made him born before me.....fuck no.....why should i treat him with any respect. People who want respect because of their age use that reason because they have 0 respectable qaulities
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Post by froman on Jan 12, 2004 12:54:06 GMT -5
mayflower- have you gone through these issues or are you just a spectator of other peoples problems?
i hate it when kids who think everything is perfect tell me what i should or shouldnt think about my problems. its just fucking insane that they feel like they know when they have no idea...
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Post by themayflower on Jan 12, 2004 13:34:34 GMT -5
im not saying parents are pefect and they deserve to be respected- i dont respect my parents or anything- im just saying that they do love you- thats why they do those things
froman- ive gone through plenty of issues w/ my family- im not just a spectator-
ive gone through a lot of tough shit in the past but i know people have gone through worse- im used to helping my friends when they have problems but i still have my own experiences
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Post by froman on Jan 12, 2004 15:00:31 GMT -5
i get it, but then you understand what im saying with "spectators" commenting and trying to give advice when they dont know what youre going throguh
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Post by supersaiyan3 on Jan 12, 2004 15:03:19 GMT -5
i may not know what its like to have divorced parents but i know what its like when you have to put up with shit from ure parents.....so dont refer to me as a "spectator" because i started this thread with a complaint about my parents
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Post by froman on Jan 12, 2004 15:08:54 GMT -5
i know but i was talking about a differnet issue in this one so calm down
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Post by i got issues on Jan 12, 2004 15:34:31 GMT -5
My opinion on this is that parental inconsistensy is a result of child/; adolescent inconsistency. When were good or not there parents are great and good to us but when we do soemthing bad, even though we might not always think its bad that when parent sturn on us.
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