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Post by supersaiyan3 on Jan 17, 2004 21:20:39 GMT -5
i mean seriously there has to be SOMETHING i do wrong....
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Post by hotjellybean on Jan 17, 2004 21:21:46 GMT -5
i dont think so! i mean ure funny and cool just cuz girlz dont get that now doesnt mean they wont get it eventually!
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JoeBOXERZzz1
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" if your not living life on the edge your taking up to much space"
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Post by JoeBOXERZzz1 on Jan 17, 2004 22:02:52 GMT -5
i guess it really difrent for girls and for guys!
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JoeBOXERZzz1
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" if your not living life on the edge your taking up to much space"
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Post by JoeBOXERZzz1 on Jan 17, 2004 22:05:03 GMT -5
i duno i really think the best advice somone can give ( even though its stupid) is to be them selves because people will liek you for who you are not who you can get with......
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Post by themayflower on Jan 17, 2004 22:13:38 GMT -5
i think your all hotties-------screw the world!!!!!!!!!! woooo im a bit hyper
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Post by i got issues on Jan 17, 2004 22:33:39 GMT -5
Well i think that something that some guys do wrong is that they act crazy in front of girls but think that the girls are impressed by that. this is wrong after talking to some girls about it. if they think you are crazy they wont like u so after seeing ur posts i can tell ur a little crazy so maybe caalm down and theyll flock to u.
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Post by CptCatz on Jan 17, 2004 23:22:46 GMT -5
i think theres only one guy that does that
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Post by supersaiyan3 on Jan 17, 2004 23:30:09 GMT -5
people always say....dont be like somebody your not just be yourself......what if your like 2 people.....what if you have 2 totally different personalitys that just share a body....how can you just tell me to be myself
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heband
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Post by heband on Jan 28, 2004 0:04:49 GMT -5
I totally feel you there--what the hell is bieng yourslef suposed to mean? but hear are some really important things that you can do to make gilrs like you more. 1.If your talking to a girl dont stare at her boobs(i know it sounds obious) 2.(i have a guy friend who does this)If you are sitting and talking to a girl keep your hand far away from your pockets and anywhere else near that region. It looks so bad. Also if for "whatever"reasonyou happenen to get a bldge dontplay with it-- i aint lidding. Dont try to cover it up cuz that just makes it worse. 3.A really good way to start out conversation is just out of nowhere say to a girl ,"you look really good today" and mean it. All the girl will do is say thanks and then the next time you see each other the girl will feel obligated to say something to you and then you can get a good conversation going. 4.Dont talk about other girls you think aer hot. even if the girl is like--oooohhhhh i love jessica simpon or whatever dont go on to say o i love her to she is soo hot-- even though you are agreeing with the girl it just sounds so bad--also dont talk to a girl about her boobs or other "girl stuff" in a one on one setting (unless you guys are really close)because it will make her feel threatend. 5. Last--but alsoreally important--dont put on an act--dont be like oh well i got a 100 on that test when the girl got a 96 or sumthin dont try to act like you know it all (and i am not saying all guys do) but some guys are afraid to ask anything of a girl. DDont be afraid to ask for help on math or stuff-- that is even good- ask 4 help with a specific problem. hope this helps *}HEBAND{*
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good
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Post by good on Jan 29, 2004 18:23:45 GMT -5
i don't post many messages, but i just have to compliment heband on that last post. you're the first girl that has said anything useful in these whole five pages. Everything you say is true. anyways, i'm not a girl, obviously, but i know that "being yourself", whatever that is, doesn't really mean anything, and it's a lie. i'm not gonna get into the philosophy of it, but there's no such thing as yourself... it's just a phrase that your parents tell you that you later find out is a lie (just like, "it's not what's on the outside, but what's on the inside that counts"). so basically, guys will never understand what girls want, and frankly, i don't think they even know what they want which is why they haven't given a straight answer to the question, and never will. it's just not a black and white clear answer with them. just be a fun person when you're with them so that they'll wanna be with you more... that's all you can do
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Post by drivethru22 on Jan 29, 2004 20:15:33 GMT -5
you know guys there are more requirements to being a good boyfriend than not being a pervert. girls think about sex too so thats total bullshit. and size doesnt matter really b/c most yeshiva girls especially your age havent done much so they wouldnt no the difference and then once your going out they migth see so it doesnt matter cuz by then they'll liek you enough not to care. plus you just have to listen tot hema nd make them feel special- girls love compliments- either on a new haircut or new shoes or watever. if you notice those kind of things and say it itll show u care. plus dont play games- be straightfoward. tell someone you like them instead of waiting forever cuz they might like u too but may be too shy. worse comes to worse ull feel a bit embaressed but its their problem in the end right? at least thats how i feel with rejection from guys. although ive been in a long relationship now so yea i should be one too talk....
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